Dementia Poem by Lilian Bartholomew

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Roxanna Kennedy, our Administrator, recently opened some poetic post from one of our members. This Dementia Awareness Week, she phoned the poet, Lilian Bartholomew, to find out more about what had inspired her to write.

Lilian is founding member of Elders Theatre Company  and while she hasn’t been able to join in in many of our remote activities recently, we’ve been keeping in touch in other ways during the course of the pandemic.

Recently, she sent in a card to thank the Entelechy Arts team for our work and also included a piece of writing, a poem, which illustrates some of her thoughts and feelings around dementia.

I called Lilian to talk about her poem, and why she felt compelled to write it. She shared a little about this with me, speaking of people with experiences which really stuck with her.

“I’m very aware of dementia because I’ve lost quite a few friends now, with it.  And some are still now in stages of it. So for me it’s very important. That’s why I’ve worked on that.”

“One particular one, who in days gone by I worked with – a lovely lady and right from the beginning, the very, very beginning, she knew what was happening to her.  And I was lucky because I saw her in Kings College, the day before she went, which was nice.”

When talking about what prompted her to pick up a pen and write, Lilian talked about learning about the Theatre of Wandering, happening in Coventry this year which is being created together with people living with dementia in Coventry, and building on ways of working from the Elders Theatre Company. “I was talking to David [Slater] you see, and he was telling me about this thing you are putting on in Coventry. And I thought this could be my contribution.”

The poem really highlights the importance of human connection at a time which can be frightening and confusing for a person facing a dementia diagnosis; how kindness and openness are the foundations to being a supportive presence. It’s the seemingly small things which can make us ambassadors. In this week of dementia awareness and beyond, what small action can we take to ‘shine a bright light’?

 

Dementia

Dementia such a frightening word

One you would wish you had never heard

When you have just know[n] you are not alone

Others around you have fears of their own

So be an ambassador go out and explore

Join up with your fellows don’t just ignore

Make people around you understand, be aware

There are many like you who need loving care

Find like-minded folk, cast your net wide

Be honest, be open you have nothing to hide.

Make everyone notice, shine a bright light

Who know[s] someday soon this might be [their] plight

Lilian Bartholomew

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